Wondering if you’re ever enough? If you can meet the needs of everybody? You’re not a Nigerian Jollof rice! Goodness, even that is never enough. We fight so hard to conceal our vulnerability, only to realise that that’s where our strength comes from. It is in the place where you are weak that God’s strength is perfected in you. So, you might want to cut down on the doing and focus more on be-ing validated without having to compete. Tell yourself the right story, for the story we tell ourselves is the self-fulfilling prophecy that’s killing us.
So then, if anyone has to hesitate between you and anyone – or anything – be bold enough to tell them NOT to choose you. With time, you’ll feel good about it.